You can blame it on the Babylonians. They started the whole thing about 4,000 years ago. New Years is said to be the oldest celebration of all, right down to the cliché resolutions.
learn more here: http://wilstar.com/holidays/newyear.htm
I don't know if the Babylonians had as much trouble keeping their resolutions as I have of keeping mine, but I'll bet they needed a little prodding too.
While I was still in London I shackled myself to the time-honoured method of "action inspired by guilt". I got together once a week with a few friends over coffee to share goals and compare notes on progress. Knowing that at least once a week I was going to be held accountable by someone else, and maybe even shamed into getting my hiney in gear if only the night before, the coffee clatch worked well.
But my guilty little chain gang was minus one link when I moved to Windsor 6 years ago, and I'm now turning to a high-tech substitute to help keep me honest:
myGoals.com
www.mygoals.com
Whether your goals are part of the Top Ten (start a new business, quit smoking, lose ten pounds, go back to school, spend more time with your family or write the "great Canadian novel" ...) or something a little more outrageous (I'm looking to chase twisters, have my music recorded by a symphony, and other simple, pragmatic stuff like that ;) , this handy new website promises an effective, timely prod via customized Goalplans and emailed task reminders that arrive precisely when you should be working on the next task.
The first 10 days of goal-chasing are free. Then it costs US$5.95 a month (or you can get 12 months for $49.95 instead of $71.40, saving $21.45). The way I look at it, it's cheaper than my coffee clatch (breakfast out, parking tickets, gas), and I can tap into a set of resources designed to help me tackle the exact goal I have in mind. The downside? Well, a coffee buddy was a bit more effective at management by guilt since I wouldn't dare have deleted one of them from my inbox if I just didn't feel like listening ;)
My 50 Things to Do in My Lifetime
www.my50.co.uk
Looking for a simple place to start without spending a dime? Check out My 50 Things to Do in My Lifetime. Make a list of what you want to do. Set deadlines. Check out their suggestions if you find yourself uninspired.
A few other resources to keep you from breaking those resolutions:
Resolution Reminders
www.hiaspire.com/newyear
* find a "Resolution Buddy" to help you stay on track
How to Keep Your New Years Resolutions
www.how-to-keep-your-new-years-resolution.com
And if you're just looking to replace the helpful advice that a coffee clatch friend might otherwise give you (minus the guilty look and wagging finger), try:
A Better Approach to New Years Resolutions -- and Any Resolution!
www.willingness.com/html/articles/resolutions.html
Get the Creative Juices Flowing ...
Maybe you need a little mental aerobics to get you in the mood for those big life changes? WhatAGreatIdea.com is one of the most innovative approaches I've ever scene to stimulating creativity. Get curious. Create a battle plan. Watch Chic TV and do some mind stretching or brain exercises in the shower.
Then head over and grab a handful of Innovation Tools. Articles on creativity, mind mapping and free brainstorming emails are just a few of the things that you'll find at this active and highly creative online community.
Got it all figured out? Inspired to move mountains? Time to create a personal mission statement for free at Franklin-Covey, and then download their planning software below ...
Downloads for Your Desktop Computer
FranklinCovey PlanPlus for Microsoft Outlook 2.0
Publisher: FranklinCovey
Cost: Free to try; $79.95 to buy
7 Part Affirmation Course 3.1
Publisher: AffirmWare
Cost: Free
GoalMaker 3.0
Publisher: GoalMaker
Cost: Free to try. $79.95 to buy.
Progress Planner Personal 1.7
Publisher: ezBusiness Systems
Cost: Free to Try. $29.99 to buy.
OptimizeMe 1.1
Publisher: johncode
Cost: Free to try. $19.90 to buy.
Dietmaster 2000
Publisher: Lifestyle Technologies
Cost: Free to try. $24.95 to buy.
DietPower
Publisher: DietPower, Inc.
Cost: Free to try. $50.00 to buy.
Eatometer
Publisher: Terzon Systems
Cost: Free to try; $14.99 to buy
Crosstrainer 5.0
Publisher: Innovative Logic
Cost: Free to try. $49.95 to buy.
Downloads for Your Handheld Computer
MySpotter - Virtual Personal Trainer (for PalmOS)
Publisher: Maximum Performance Solutions
Cost: Basic Edition - Free. Standard Edition - $29.95.
Lifebalance 3.2.2 - Mobile Edition (for PalmOS)
Publisher: Llamagraphics
Cost: Free to try. $39.95 to buy
(also available for Windows and Mac)
Pocket Personal Trainer (for Pocket PC)
Publisher: BigMan Software
Cost: Free to try. $11.50 to buy.
Goal Master 2.9 (for PalmOS)
Publisher: WestWare
Cost: Free to try. $8.00 to buy.
eDiet Manager (for PalmOS)
Publisher: Mobile Systems
Cost: Free to try. $19.95 to buy.
Diet and Exercise Assistant (for Palm, Pocket PC & Windows)
Publisher: Keyoe
Cost: Free to try. $19.95 to buy.
Weight-By-Date Mobile (for Palm, Pocket PC & Windows)
Publisher: ProVariant Software
Cost: Free to try. $19.95 to buy.
A New You
If you're looking for a fun way to try a "new you" on for size, why not treat yourself a "virtual makeover"?
Give Your Lungs a Makeover ...
While I'm not crazy about linking to a cigarette site, Phillip Morris has some excellent resources ...
Quit Smoking
Youth Smoking Prevention
Parent Resource Center
A New Job
Stuck in the rut and looking for a better fit? Here are some of the best virtual head-hunter sites on the net:
A New Adventure

Adventure Divas
www.adventuredivas.com
Got wanderlust? Looking for something out of this world and right off the map? Plan your pilgrimage or be inspired by someone else's at AdventureDivas.com.
Global Online Adventure Learning Site (GOALS)
www.goals.com
Explorers of all ages are invited to join the folks at GOALS on a growing list of educational adventures with an emphasis on science, technology and nature. Their adventures and acronym 'GOALS' are intended to inspire readers to establish and strive for goals of their own.
SoYouWanna.com
www.SoYouWanna.com
So ya wanna be a rock star? or an astrophysicist? or get on "The Real World" with Carson Daly? If you're looking for an adventure, this site teaches you how to do all the things nobody taught you in school, and then some!
HUBBY'S PICK > > >
My hubby, Stephen Blakney, suggests the following online resources for men:
Men's Health: "The Belly Off Club"
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/channel/0,6915,s1-4-0-0-0,00.html
Complementing "Men's Health" magazine, this website companion includes stories from "real" guys (you can submit your own), practical tips, meal plans, message boards, "Ask-the-Expert", and email reminders for your personalized plan.
You can try out the "Men's Health Personal Trainer" program free of charge for 10 days. It's an online subscription plan, starting at US$5.95 per month, and includes customized diet and workout plans, and interactive workout software and animated exercise demos.
Happy New Year!
with a renewed commitment to the Great White North ...
gentle listener :)
Well, it's another new year of consumer computing, and that means more innovative products, some handy new gadgets, and a slew of companies emerging and departing.
In order to celebrate the launch into 2004, you can look forward to a new "look and feel" for the "Edible Computer" website soon! Have some ideas about the things that you think would be most useful? Particular topics? A better way of getting around? I invite you to visit the Listeners' Picks forum to tell me about it.
One of the big changes in 2004 will be a renewed focus on Canadian-based innovation! (Click here to read more about why I think this is important, and how you can participate). I'm always looking for stories to share about great new Canadian consumer computing products and services, and people who are showing breakthrough innovation in the way that they use their computers. Know of someone I should be covering? Drop me a line and let me know who they are, and what they're up to at the Am I Looking for You? forums.
I'm always grateful for your feedback. I want your experience as a listener, and as a visitor to the website, to make your journey as a computer consumer easier and more valuable.
Have a terrific Monday morning, and let's keep talking!